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Dallas Voice this week reached out to Blaine LeBron, president of Log Cabin Republicans of Dallas, for his reactions to executive orders focused on LGBTQ people signed by Donald Trump this week following his inauguration. Here are his responses to our questions.
— Tammye Nash
Dallas Voice: LGBTQ conservatives, including you and other local Log Cabin members, have been touting Donald Trump as the most LGBTQ-supportive president ever, pointing to his appointments of Scott Bessent, Richard Grenell and Tammy Bruce. But on his first day, Trump signed several executive orders targeting LGBTQ people.
Do you consider those executive orders to be anti-LGBTQ? Do you think the LGB community should separate from the trans community?
Blaine LeBron: Richard Grenell was the first openly gay Cabinet member, a fact that, while not widely publicized by the mainstream media, stands as a milestone in LGBT representation. Grenell first served as ambassador to Germany and later as acting director of national intelligence during Trump’s first term, making history in the process as the first gay cabinet member in this role. Now, in 2025, Grenell serves as special envoy for global partnerships, continuing his work on the international stage and demonstrating that LGBT individuals have a place at the highest levels of government.
In Trump’s second term, he has also appointed Scott Bessent, a gay father of two, and Tammy Bruce, a lesbian in a committed relationship. These appointments reflect a clear and consistent effort to include qualified LGBT individuals in leadership roles, despite claims that “Trump hates the entire LGBT community.”
Now, because he hasn’t appointed a transgender person, some are asking if we’re “dropping the T.” The answer is no. Transgender individuals have stood with us since the beginning, and we won’t abandon them. However, this issue is more complex than these oversimplified narratives suggest.
The acceptance of same-sex marriage grew from 40 percent under Barack Obama to 71 percent today because we showed the world we’re just like everyone else — building families and communities. The trans movement can achieve similar progress, but it’s a process that requires time and public engagement, not demands.
Let’s celebrate these high-profile wins for LGBT representation without assuming they come at the expense of others. Suggesting otherwise is shortsighted and undermines our shared cause.
Dallas Voice: I believe you mentioned that public support for trans rights has eroded. Should public opinion be the basis for civil rights?
Blaine LeBron: Let’s be honest with ourselves as a community: It does. Public opinion undeniably shapes how society approaches civil rights issues, and that’s why we need to set a great example for our community.
While support for same-sex marriage is now at 71 percent, this wasn’t always the case. During the 2008 election, both Barack Obama and Joe Biden publicly opposed same-sex marriage, supporting civil unions instead. Whether they personally cared about the issue or not, their stance reflected the political reality at the time when only 40 percent of Americans supported marriage equality.
Public perception plays a critical role in politics, whether we like it or not. What happens in the voting booth is private, and politicians — on both sides of the aisle — want the public with them, not simply paying lip service to ideas they don’t yet support. For marriage equality to reach 71 percent approval today, it took decades of advocacy, education and visibility to show that the gay community was building families and contributing positively to society. The result was a genuine cultural shift that made legal progress possible.
When it comes to trans issues, current polling highlights growing skepticism, particularly regarding children. For example, 60 percent of Americans now believe gender is determined by sex assigned at birth, up from 54 percent in 2017. Additionally, 58 percent of Americans support policies requiring transgender athletes to compete based on their sex assigned at birth. Most notably, 68 percent oppose puberty blockers for children ages 10 to 14.
These numbers demonstrate that many Americans are uncomfortable with policies involving children and feel these decisions are too complex for minors.
Based on my own personal experience as a gay man, I have to agree. I didn’t know what I didn’t know, and I had to go through my own journey to truly understand who I was. There’s immense value in allowing individuals to grow, explore, and come to these deeply personal realizations on their own timeline, without outside pressures or irreversible decisions being made too soon.
Unfortunately, organizations like the Human Rights Campaign often fail to prioritize unifying goals that foster such cultural shifts. This approach neglects broader legislation like the Equality Act, which would benefit 13 million LGBT Americans, and creates the impression that the “LGB” is being sidelined in favor of the “T.” Why? Because if we achieved broad rights for everyone, their fundraising would dry up. It’s that simple, and I’m calling the HRC out.
If we want to see lasting progress, we must focus on advocacy that brings people together, not strategies that divide. Just as we did with marriage equality, we can achieve change by focusing on shared goals, educating the public, and building trust. By setting a great example as a community and prioritizing efforts that unite, we can create the cultural shift necessary for meaningful and lasting progress.
Dallas Voice: Trump’s executive order says the government will recognize only two genders. But science says that is inaccurate, that gender is a spectrum not a binary. Shouldn’t government policy be scientifically sound?
Blaine LeBron: Let’s be practical. When a baby is born, they are assigned a gender at birth, with rare medical exceptions — a fact nearly 100 percent of Americans accept. If someone wants to transition from female to male or vice versa as an adult, that’s the essence of being transgender, and it doesn’t erase the “T.” But when we move into the realm of recognizing nonbinary and gender spectrum identities at the federal level, we have to ask: What’s the tangible benefit for our community?
This doesn’t stop anyone from identifying as nonbinary or loving who they want. It’s about setting a standard that the majority of Americans, including most liberals and members of the LGBT community, can understand. For the federal government to recognize a spectrum of genders for employment, housing, healthcare and financial purposes is simply not reasonable. It complicates systems without addressing pressing issues.
By ending this discussion at the federal level, we can focus on priorities that truly improve lives, like tackling the estimated 1.6 million LGBT homeless youth. Federal policies should focus on helping people, creating jobs, providing housing and improving healthcare. These are real, tangible things that make a difference — not debates over pronouns.
Let’s direct our energy toward solving issues that strengthen our community and create a better future for all.
Dallas Voice: Trump also rescinded several of Biden’s executive orders including EO 13988, Preventing and Combating Discrimination on the Basis of Gender Identity or Sexual Orientation, 14004, Enabling All Qualified Americans To Serve Their Country in Uniform and 14075, Advancing Equality for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, and Intersex Individuals. Do you see these as anti-LGBTQ moves and if not, why?
Blaine LeBron: Let’s examine these executive orders individually:
• EO 13988 (Preventing Discrimination): This order directed federal agencies to create plans to prevent discrimination against LGBT people. While this is a noble goal, the practical effect was limited, as the only concrete action came from HUD clarifying that LGBT people couldn’t be discriminated against in housing — a protection that would be universally addressed by passing the Equality Act.
• EO 14004 (Transgender Military Service): This order allowed transgender individuals to serve openly in the military, impacting approximately 1,500 active-duty service members, or about 0.1 percent of the military. However, these individuals would still need to meet the military’s rigorous standards, just like anyone else.
• EO 14075 (Advancing Equality): This was primarily a plan-building exercise that didn’t result in any significant policy changes. While it garnered headlines, it ultimately failed to deliver meaningful impact for the LGBT community.
So, is rescinding these orders anti-LGBT? It’s not that simple. The bigger question is whether these orders, celebrated with much fanfare, actually accomplished what they claimed. When you dig deeper, they often did little beyond generating talking points. My question to you at the Dallas Voice is why are you asking this now and why did a gay conservative have to tell you these didn’t make any impact on our community?
Rescinding such executive orders is less about rolling back tangible protections and more about signaling a shift in priorities. Instead of symbolic gestures, what the LGBT community truly needs are substantive legislative solutions like the Equality Act. Pretending to do a lot but delivering little isn’t progress, it’s distraction. Rescinding these executive orders raises concerns, but we should focus on advocating for meaningful, lasting change that genuinely improves lives.
Dallas Voice: Again, you and other LGBTQ conservatives say Trump is the most LGBTQ supportive president ever. But many of those in his administration and many of his closest advisors and supporters are decidedly anti-LGBTQ and are pushing an anti-LGBTQ and, in many people’s opinion, an anti-woman agenda. How do you address those disparities?
Blaine LeBron: This criticism is outdated and rooted in perceptions of the old GOP, not the modern Republican Party. In 2016, the Republican establishment opposed Donald Trump’s candidacy and maintained a platform that included opposition to same-sex marriage. Trump didn’t have the influence to change it then, but by 2024, under his leadership, the Republican National Committee’s platform — for the first time since 1992 — removed this outdated stance. This marked a historic shift toward inclusivity and acceptance of LGBT Americans.
Today’s Republican Party is a Unity Party, a broad coalition of Americans from all races, genders, creeds and orientations, united by a shared belief in opportunity, freedom and merit.
Trump was the trailblazer, breaking through barriers and challenging the old guard to pave the way for a new generation of leaders. But he’s not the sole focus; he’s a standard-bearer who proved what’s possible. Now, a growing chorus of voices with a unified platform is ready to carry this progress forward as future presidents, congresspeople and senators.
This transformation has redefined the GOP. Appointments like Richard Grenell and Scott Bessent demonstrate the focus on merit and qualifications rather than tokenism. Trump also surrounded himself with strong, capable women who exemplified leadership and helped drive meaningful change, proving that empowerment isn’t limited by gender or identity.
The outdated narrative of the GOP restricting LGBT rights or women’s opportunities no longer reflects reality. This is a party built on progress, inclusion, and opportunity — a future where diverse voices, including women and LGBT leaders, continue to lead and ensure every American has the chance to thrive.
Dallas Voice: What have I not asked about that you want to point out or discuss?
Blaine LeBron: If we’re here to advocate for the rights of the LGBT community, why aren’t we pushing Congress harder to pass meaningful legislation? We have broad public support on issues like marriage and a fairly progressive House and Senate. Executive orders are temporary and easily rescinded, but real change comes from laws passed by Congress. This is the moment to act.
Let’s challenge Congress to address critical issues like codifying marriage equality or advancing a practical version of the Equality Act. I’d bet Trump would sign it. We’ve spent too much time focusing on one president or party and neglected the broader strategy of working with all sides.
Democrats aren’t our only friends, and we shouldn’t alienate Republicans. We’re not a political party — we’re a diverse community of people, and building bipartisan support is how we win.
Organizations like the Human Rights Campaign also have a chance to pivot. With their strong brand, they could focus on urgent issues like LGBT youth homelessness, which affects 1.6 million individuals, instead of niche battles that divide public opinion. It’s time to prioritize the needs of our community and work with anyone willing to help — Republican or Democrat.
If we stop alienating potential allies and embrace collaboration, we can make real, lasting progress for the LGBT community. That’s the leadership we need now.
Blaine LeBron cohosts the podcast Coffee With Gays. Listen here.
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